Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Im down. bc i didnt take the dr's advice, what to do now?

my dr. /psychistrist specifically told me im not ready to work... my dad mentioned this morning that since i have nothing ot do i should go out and get a job. so i did. i had an interview which went well, and now i have another interview, but my whole mood and everything has changed from good to bad now. my first day of shcool is tom. and im afraid i will be not ready when it comes now. i know i j ust made a poor decisions by listening to him instead of the dr. and im just bummed out now. majorly. any advice how to move on or cheer up.Im down. bc i didnt take the dr's advice, what to do now?
I'm sorry that you are feeling down. :-( Since you do not mention being hired by the companies you interviewed, you can turn them down if they call you back. (And you do not have to give a reason besides, ';I have something else lined up.';) Taking care of your mental health is just as important as taking care of your physical health. Your doctor probably thinks that you aren't ready to handle both school and work. You might be a little upset (and down) because of your father's lack of support? If so, then be honest with him. And if he doesn't understand why you can't do school and work, explain it in terms he understands. If he had a physical illness that created limitations, he certainly wouldn't want to make it worse by taking on too much, especially if his doctor advised against it. (Educate your dad more about whatever mental illness you are experiencing. His statement about getting a job was probably meant to be helpful, but was made out of ignorance.)...Also, contact your doctor if you do not start feeling better soon. I wish you well on starting school, and hope you start feeling a little better. :-)
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