Im TTC my 1st, I have a Dr's appt on Wednesday (not for fertility), please help, i need advice!?

Well me and my HB were TTC from Nov 08 till June 09, it didn't happen so we decided to have a holiday and stop for a little bit, well this month is month one for us TTC again!!!


well i have regular periods (every 29-31 days) we previously tried pre-seed and clear blue OPK's (with no joy) well last week my 1st cousin was told she had PCOS so im worried now as it can be hereditary.


Am i silly to voice my concerns to my Dr? and maybe ask for some tests to see if im ovulating and fertile? i am going ot the Dr's for a different problem so can i mention about my fertility at the same time?


Im 25 i don't smoke and hardly ever drink!





thanks in advance for you r help! x





:)Im TTC my 1st, I have a Dr's appt on Wednesday (not for fertility), please help, i need advice!?
no that would not be silly at all, it would be sensible!


Ask your doctor what he/she thinks, they will be able to advise you and do some tests to see if they can help.


Good luck hun! xxIm TTC my 1st, I have a Dr's appt on Wednesday (not for fertility), please help, i need advice!?
you havent pcos luv as your haiving regular periods. it may be that your hubbie has a low sperm count or your not ovulating that strongly. youve been trying now for nearly a year, exxagerate a little bit more to your gp and request to be referred. he will do a few bloods first but the he'l refer you x
If you have not been preventing pregnancy but not ';trying'; that still counts as trying. After a year of unprotected sex 85% of women are pregnant. I would see what your doctor says. Mine said that she would refer me to this clinic if I wanted. A few months later, I made an appointment. I feel much better knowing what is going on.





Good luck and baby dust!!!
actually it would be the most responsible thing you can do..you and hubby must get tested...all the best
First things first- the doc wont do any tests on your fertility til after you've been trying for 1 year, and they wont test your ovulating as you are having regular periods which means you are.





I was trying for 9 months with my partner, and throughout those 9 months, we were both thinking oooh this could be the one that gets me pregnant. Of course I got sick of waiting so long so started to accept the fact I was obviously infertile and I'm never going to have children. So my partner and I decided to start having just dirty sex to be honest lol and enjoying every minute on it, babies being the last thing on our minds, and BANG I got pregnant. When we started ttc, we literally thought it wouldnt take long, maybe 3 months or so, but how wrong we were. It took us 9 months, it took one of my friends 2 years, another friend a year and a half. It takes time and will happen when its going to happen but you MUST STOP THINKING ABOUT IT SO MUCH.


It's so hard not to but the more you think about it the more it stresses you both out and your body will have none of it.





I wouldnt voice your fertility concerns to your doc just yet, just relax and let nature take its course.





Good luck xx