Should i trust my dr or be more concerned? miscarriage. need advice.?

i went in for my 13 weeks ultrasound and found out my baby stopped growing early on and they called it a blighted ovum but arent sure when exactly the baby passed cuz it was so small. my body hasnt registered im not pregnant so my gestational sac kept growing and stopped at 12 weeks. my hormone level was down to 700 friday and 365 monday. The dr thinks i will miscarry on my own, but i still havent, although i spotted orange yesterday and have been having slight ';cramps';. So ive been carrying my passed away child for over 2 months?! my mother is concerned it will make me sick, i woke up with a fever a couple nights ago, but have felt fine since. So u think i should tell them i want a d+c or just trust it isnt destroying my uterus and making me sick? im scared and so sad. i just dont want to carry this child anymore, it hurts my heart. all this time ive thought i had a healthy 13 week old fetus and its gone. im scared. what do u think? Do u think i will miscarry soon since i spotted some?Should i trust my dr or be more concerned? miscarriage. need advice.?
I'm sadden to read about your loss but I know and you will be blessed again with another angel soon. Miscarriages are painful so I really would suggest you speaking with your Dr. again so he can assure you that you will be okay by waiting. Going to the hospital to have the D/C completed is a must and that's for your health. Take care of yourself.Should i trust my dr or be more concerned? miscarriage. need advice.?
Your Dr. should of given you some meds to help you pass eveything that is remaining. Then gone on with the D%26amp;C.





I am very sorry!
I am so sorry that you are going thru this. I have had 2 miscarriages since Christmas so I know how you feel. I would get a second optinion if I were you. You never know what another doctor might find out. Good luck!!!
I am so so sorry about what happened to you, I know how you feel I also had a miscarriage at 6 weeks this past New Years Eve. If I were you I would totally ask for a D%26amp;C. I didn鈥檛 get one because I completely lost the baby on my own right away. Seriously I would call your doctor as soon as possible. Stay strong, I know that it is easier said than done (believe me I know) but it will happen for you and you will have a baby
I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. I have been there and know how much you are hurting! From my own experience that I felt that the D %26amp;C was more painful and hurtful than when I have passed the fetus on my own. I have had 3 miscarriages and It is not a easy factor. If you are concerned that it might be making you sick, you can request a D%26amp;C be done. If your doctor does not want to preform that procedure, I might find another doctor that seems to care about how you feel as well as about your treatment. Goodluck and It will get better, the pain and hurt will finally subside.
I'm so sorry to hear u are going through this. I would get another doctors opinion. It doesnt seem right that they told you just to wait for it to pass. How long does this waiting process usually take? I too had a miscarriage in Feb. I was only 6 weeks and it passed by itself. I cant imagine having to know u are carrying somthing that isnt really there. I would be a little worried about the fever too. I think u should call ur doctor up and speak to someone about ur concerns. This is ur body and no1 knows it like u do and know one cares about it like u do. I would call. Im sorry u have to go through all this.