I am 39 weeks pregnant now and for the past 5 days i have had the WORST pressure down there on my pubic bone and cervix. My dr refuses to do anything about it because i'm only dialted to a 1 1/2. I can barley even WALK!!! Every time i move my legs or tighten my muscles the pain is horrible. I've tried the nipple stimulation and sex she recommended but nothing is working. I need some relief! Miltary Dr's are not the greatest apparantly they are cheap so they don't want to do anything unless they have to. My family is in from across the country because the dr said i was going to have her last week now they have to leave on SATURDAY and i'm still pregnant! I don't know what to do!!! Any advice at all will help. Advice on inducing safely that actually has a chance of working or at least helping with this horrible pain!39 weeks pregnant, unbearable pubic bone pressure, dr refuses to help any advice??
I had that happen to i got sent home even though i was having really bad back labor and contractions. I know it sucks but try walking, and also take a warm bath!!! it helps you relax. I my water broke while i was in the tub :-) and i was 41 weeks pregnant so i know how bad it is! the pressure is probably just the baby pushing on you, my daughter would kick the crap out of my cervix and sides. Once your dr office is closed just go to the ER and hopefully they will have a better dr on call!!! Good luck!! hope you have the baby soon!!39 weeks pregnant, unbearable pubic bone pressure, dr refuses to help any advice??
Call that docotor and tell her you need to be seen immediately and your going to keep calling until she does somthing about it.You have the right to be atleast seen even if you aren't dialated much.You should tell her that what if somthing is wrong with your baby and she just ignores you she'll fell like sh!t.
walk ,walk, walk and every once in a while squat down and that will help! it did for me. I know at 38 weeks you are big and dont feel like walking moreless moving at all. sorry. Do you have a breast pump? If so pump a little it could help. The only other thing that i know would be sex . GOOD LUCK!!! and congrats!
Unfortunately there is no quick or certain FIX for such things now. My first baby was on my tail bone at the end and caused me horrible sciatic pain too - I doubt there is anything the doctor or any doctor could honestly DO to relieve this now without inducing labor. I had that done with #4 and it was the most HORRIBLE birth of my 4 that I experienced. I do not recommend that!
Have you tried laying on your back with pillows under your hips %26amp; butt - it's an odd position but it might coerce the baby to move enough or readjust his position to relieve pain a LITTLE. I hear tha taking caster oil DOES induce labor - it tastes absolutely HORRIBLE and causes other physcial discomfort and puts you on the toile rather OFTEN if you know what I mean - but I hear it is a SURE way to get labor started. Walking is said to help but never did for me either..
Have you tried getting into a swimming pool and MOVING around that way? It is much less strenuous on YOU but might ease some pressure and stimulate labor as well. You're almost at the end - try to hang in there and be patient.... soon it will all be a long gone dream and you'll hold a new beautiful little dream in your arms instead!
Just walk and try and stretch a bit. Your doctor must be an HMO. Oh, I just saw military, yeah they are the worst.
Oh god you must be in agony you poor thing I used castor oil to bring on my second child as she was overdue take 2 or 3 big tablespoons of the oil in some orange juice it tasted horrible but it worked and as i was 10 days overdue it was worth it
I know it hurts to walk but any exercise you can endure will help! Best of luck to you and your family!
You might want to check out this new website which
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If you just click on 'What are some activities that might help induce labor?' you will get something like 30 great links to pages that have a variety of different ways to help encourage labor. Good luck.
Walk a lot. Soak in a warm tub. And go to labor and delivery if it gets worse and refuse to leave.
I was experiencing that with my last one (#3 of 3 girls). My doc told me to go to labor and delivery. They blew me off and sent me home. The next morning, I literally almost had her in the hospital parking lot. She was completely crowned before we ever got there. I was in my hospital room less than 10 minutes before they announced the time of birth.
(This wasn't a military hospital either. I simply wasn't having regular contractions, and they were relying too heavily on that information. Never even checked my cervix.)
I can tell you what not to do, and that would be something stupid like take castor oil or try to make your own water break. Castor oil will just make you throw up and have diarrhea, it does not make the baby come any faster. Trying to induce yourself is highly unsafe and can cause complications or affect your baby, so you need to just hang tight. The old wives tales never hurt anyone though, the sex, bumpy drives, baths, spicy foods.....
Also, why would the doctor tell you that you were going to have the baby in the next week and you were not even dilated to 2 yet? He is not God, he does not know unless he is planning on inducing. That is just giving you false hope and has made your family come out for nothing. Tell him he owes you a membrane stripping! If you have never heard, the stripping of the membranes is supposed to thin the cervix and release the hormones that will help dilate you. It is quite uncomfortable, but could work (doesn't work for everyone so don't put all your eggs in one basket here). It is a medical procedure so you don't have to worry about harming the baby. He may not do it until you are 40 wks though. No doc will usually induce you before then.
I had the pelvic pain and pressure starting about 38 wks and did not have my son until 42.5 weeks--you heard right. Needless to say I have a new doc this time around.
drink rasberry tea. this should help. and i know it is painful but walking does help. have someone walk with you so you can lean on them. you are so lucky to be close to your due date. i am 32 weeks and i am so tired of being pregnant, but i will be patient.
I was washing the bathrooms - even though they were clean, I was doing it the whole day!!! hey, I went into labor at 2 am! I guess it worked! :)
I had my first daughter through the military and it was so bad! I know how you feel unless they see the babies head they dont want to do anything. They told me it was going to be two weeks till i had her but my husband didnt believe them so they suggested walking the mall. We did that till it hurt so bad we couldnt walk anymore. I went to the ER and told them i was in labor they took me right away and sent me up to labor and delivery. The doc still said it wasnt going to happen but my husband refused to take me home till they gave me something. Six hours later i had her! Thank god i didnt leave! I would go to the ER and Refuse to leave till they give you something! GOOD LUCK!
When i was pregant with my son i had the same thing, on my right hip could walk at all. So i always took a bath to realx myself, and now you can get massages that help reducing the pressure. Honestly theres not too much you can do. Walking helps you dyalate so try if you can. Other wise keep you with the sex, it'll help soften the cervex to dyalate more..
I am so sorry you are going thru this. All you can do is just walk and walk and stretch and try to hang in there.
Yes, I have that pain it feels like something hard is trying to push against my pelvic bone... I was convinced it was my sons head...
Dr. said there was nothing he could do...
Try walking up and down steps or squatting with your legs apart... Good Luck!
I hope your daughter arrives while your family is still there...